Cheating, smssex...


by kostika

Question by lil'sammy:

Is Sms-Sex cheating?

we met on the 5th may... started going out on the 13th...

on the 13th of june, we celebrated being together for a month.
i guess that shows we were boy/girl friend.

on the 28th of june,
he had sms-sex with a chick who's number isn't saved.
(so i didn't get her name)

Today, 8th september,
I found those smses.

OK, DISREGARD the fact that i went tru his messages.
I've NEVER gone tru a boyfriend's personals before,
but while we were messing around with each other's mobile,
one thing led to another and i found them.

IM SORRY I WENT TRU HIS THINGS. I FEEL GUILTY AS HELL. which is probably why im not feeling crushed, as i probably shud... the guilt is numbing the pain.

But seriously,
He had sms-sex with a chick on the 28th june...
It was all decriptive and etc.
I've also seen sms-es from her yesterday.
Which means they're still in touch.

Is he cheating?
And mind you,
on the 28th june, I'd consider us being pretty close already.
What do I do now?
... i hate it that i'd have to admit i went tru his inbox. and becuz its dated back to 2-3 months ago, and the recent messages hasn't shown any sexual interactions, i shouldnt let it pass?

and he's really nice to me too. we spend heaps of time together.




Best answer:

Answer by choccy_002
I would say it is definitely cheating. You should dump him and find someone who will respect you.

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